Che “Rhymefest” Smith Red Carpet Interview-‘In My Father’s House’ by Patty Babin

Che “Rhymefest” Smith Red Carpet Chicago premiere ‘In My Father’s House’. Photo Credit: SarahsBackstagePass® Photographer: Bradley Todd

The Journey of Family, Truth and Forgiveness

Here’s a rap tribute is to a man who inspires with not only his film but also his grace, humanity, and dignity. Che “Rhymefest” Smith is a hip-hop artist, well known for co-writing the Oscar-winning song “Glory” from the movie Selma, along with Common and John Legend. He’ll now be known for presenting his story to the world in the film In My Father’s House.

Here’s a little rhyme
So please take the time
To watch this docu-story
Of a man that co-wrote “Glory.”

He’s Che “Rhymefest” Smith
Who we spent some time with
At his Music Box premier
Of “In My Father’s House,” you hear?

Che’s a man with a mission
And he’s giving you permission
To see inside his life,
Of forgiveness, truth, and strife.

Common and Che Smith-SarahsBackstagePass-Bradley-Todd-Photo-Credit

On Monday, October 5, at the Music Box Theater in Chicago, the documentary, In My Father’s House, played to a packed crowd of Che’s family, friends, and colleagues. The energy in the building before the film was powerful, equally matching his film’s. It documents the journey of his reunion with his father after twenty-five  years. Not knowing if his father is dead or alive, he discovers that his father is indeed alive; living amongst the homeless while battling alcohol addiction.

When people hear about a reunion between a parent and a child, they assume it is a “Hallmark” moment. They immediately jump to a happy place because it feels good. However, this is not always the reality. His film shows how it can be similar to opening the lid on an emotional stew that has been on simmer for a long time. There is a wide variety of flavors that are tangled together and need to be identified.

In the film, Che exposes the truth, his struggle, his love, and his forgiveness towards his father with a tremendous amount of courage. Che makes some bold choices in regard to getting his father back on track and integrating him into his family. During our conversation, Che shared his thoughts about family. “No family is perfect. None; not yours, not mine—no family is perfect. But the key is how are you going to pivot, and how are you going to forgive, and how are you going to move forward. Forgiveness is key! In America, now more than ever, it is pivotal that a family comes together one way or the other.”

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Patty Babin (Sarah’s Backstage Pass®) chatting with Che Smith Photo Credit: SarahsBackstagePass® Photographer: Bradley Todd

Not everyone would be keen to share their truth and let the world see inside their life. When Che was speaking to another reporter, he said, “If you don’t document your experience here on earth, what is the proof you ever existed? I am excited what others can possibly gain from this film.” You may find a little piece of your life’s experiences that are similar to his story.

Donnie Smith, Che’s wife, was also in attendance, looking beautiful, confident, and strong. She is his rock throughout his journey and is a warrior of her own. She made the statement in the film, “People need to know where they come from. I think that is important. It’s like a puzzle, exploring the past and you need to find the missing pieces and trying to find some resolution.”

Donnie is the Co-Founder and Executive Director of Donda’s House, a non-profit in memory of Donda West. She is passionate, along with Che, who is the creative director, about giving back and supporting Chicago’s young aspiring artists. In the film, the clips of Donda’s House are inspiring. What a beautiful and safe environment was created for youth to express their feelings through art and music; this speaks volumes about Donnie and Che.

Also in attendance was Brian Smith, Che’s father. With Che and Donda’s support, love, and the extreme help of “A Safe Haven,” Smith learned to beat his alcohol addiction and to function in society as an independent man. Smith made a comment that the reunion was pretty “spicy,” but everything was all right. He said, “It was like a Cinderella story and a roller coaster ride.” That is definitely what is shown in the film.

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Filmmakers ‘In My Father’s House’ Ricki Stern and Annie Sundberg. Photo Credit: SarahsBackstagePass® Photographer: Bradley Todd

We spoke with Emmy-nominated directors, writers, and producers Ricki Stern and Annie Sundberg, whose credits include the Emmy-nominated documentary Joan Rivers – A Piece of Work. These two enormously talented women created a film that validated the truth and the journey of Che and his family. We asked why they got involved with this project, and Stern replied, “This is a story that has so many components to it that people would respond to it in a universal way.” When I asked about their criteria in making a film, Stern said, “They [she and Sundberg] respond to strong characters that are on a mission, that are passionate and driven.”

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L to R Ricki Stern, Che Smith, Neli Vazquez Rowland, Common, Brian Smith Photo Credit: SarahsBackstagePass® Photographer: Bradley Todd

They were asked if at times filming becomes too personal and uncomfortable when filming. Sundberg said, “The process of making a very intimate documentary that is cinema verite [a documentary filmmaking technique] where you are in it, in people’s lives. There are often very uncomfortable times where you are witness to people going through turmoil, ups, and downs. It’s okay to bear witness to it. You are helping them get through something that they can reflect on afterward and make those hard choices what goes in or out of the film later. It’s okay to be there in the moment. We also develop strong relationships with the people we make films about.” They continued to talk about how, in making this film, they can grow from the experience and their lives are enriched from working with Che and his family. It’s apparent the bond they all had formed, and this perfect storm is why the film sends such a powerful message to all people.

Last, but not least, at the end of the Red Carpet segment, excitement filled the room, and people parted as Common entered. You could feel the genuine friendship and family between Common and Che. That was a reunion in itself.

We could all hear someone in the crowd ask Common what he thinks of Che. He said Che is “limitless and infinite.” Indeed he is. He is musician, an educator and is currently a model for Kenneth Cole’s new collection called “The Courageous Class.” He leads by example. Che summed up his attitudes about life. “My motto in life is to be of service and not self-serving.”

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Patty Babin and Che Smith had a great chat. Photo Credit: SarahsBackstagePass® Photographer: Bradley Todd

The film opens in AMC theaters in 20 cities starting Oct. 9. For further information, please visit

Patty Babin © October 8, 2015